A few alternate sites some of us recommend...

• SwingLifestyle - Probably the largest/most widely populated and active swinger community.
• Kasidie - Large swinger community. A younger crowd (in most areas) - relatively well populated in major metro areas and the west coast.
• SDC - Most popular swinger community outside the United States

Those of you who are single guys and paying enough attention to read this... If you haven't looked into/heard of the "hotwife" lifestyle, you probably should. Swinger community sites are a great place to look for people into the hotwife lifestyle. Final tip: Fill out your profile (paid profiles go a long way with this approach), upload decent photos and approach the hotwife/couples in a respectful and well presented manner.