articulate, curious, hot, hungry (m4w) - Somerville, MA

I'm married to someone who is travelling approximately 50% of the time and looking to explore and play with someone who finds the idea of a sexual relationship disconnected from everyday life to be an appealing turn-on.

I want something simple and straightforward. Let's meet for a drink -- ideally we click, enjoy drinking, chatting, flirting, and want more (ideally we enjoy the wanting as well -- anticipation being more-or-less the most effective aphrodisiac.)
And we take that where it leads us, wherever it feels mutually satisfying, pleasant, interesting. Personally I hope it leads us somewhere involving a lot of making out, hands exploring under clothes, self-restraint crumbling to reckless abandon.

It's a thought, anyway. I live in Somerville. I'm 35, 6', in reasonable shape, have blue eyes, soft skin, I enjoy fluid power-dynamics in the bedroom. I'm hipster/nerdy-hot/cute, enjoy want and anticipation, and look forward to applying them to you.

Email thislovelyescape [at] gmail [dot] com if any of this appeals....

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