Married bi couple that loves to play - mw4m mw4w mw4mw mw4ww mw4mm mw4mtf mw4ftm - High Point, NC

Looking for any variations of the following: MFF, MMF, MFMF, MMFF, oral, anal, singles, couples, threesome, foursome, swingers, soft swap, full swap, or just everyone all in the bed together! We play only with those who identify as bi / pan / omni and sometimes bicurious, on a case by case basis. Open to cis and trans folx. Race and gender unimportant. Prefer average size or HWP in men, but average / HWP / BBW in women. And of course, clean, well-groomed (prefer you to have trimmed/shaved body hair regardless of gender), and disease-free. We are not opposed to alcohol and 420, but prefer everyone to play pretty much sober. If you can't enjoy play without having "something," you are probably not for us.

We are a married white college-educated professional couple. Clean, disease-free, drama-free. He is a bi cis male, age 47, 6', 220lbs, with cut 5-6" penis, shaved head, lightly tanned, brown eyes. She is a pan cis female, age 35, 5'6, 285lbs, 38DDD, pale skin, brown hair, green eyes. We both have experience with casual encounters as singles and now as a married couple. We've been together several years, have excellent communication skills, and a solid relationship and household to which we are deeply committed. We play because we both enjoy it! We know what we like (so we are fairly picky about play partners). If you are a like-minded person, and kept on reading to the end of this post, why not contact us?

Note: We don't use smartphones except for work, so we don't have kik, snapchat, skype, etc. To contact us, email .

A few alternate sites some of us recommend...

  • SwingLifestyle - Probably the largest/most widely populated and active swinger community.
  • Kasidie - Large swinger community. A younger crowd (in most areas) - relatively well populated in major metro areas and the west coast.
  • SDC - Most popular swinger community outside the United States

Those of you who are single guys and paying enough attention to read this... If you haven't looked into/heard of the "hotwife" lifestyle, you probably should. Swinger community sites are a great place to look for people into the hotwife lifestyle. Final tip: Fill out your profile (paid profiles go a long way with this approach), upload decent photos and approach the hotwife/couples in a respectful and well presented manner.