Some tips for using casualencounter.org to optimize your connection opportunities
With the disappearance of craigslist's casual encounters there was a void left in the ability to find potential casual adult encounters regionally near you. Casualencounter.org aims to provide a moderated and high quality way to do just that!
We'd like to present a handful of tips that will help you find what you're looking for...
- Use the standard abbreviations to indicate what you're looking for so that you actually show up in the searches people are performing.
Example Listing Types:
(Highly advised to add at least one of these to your listing subject and as many as apply to the listing body)
w4m - Woman looking for a man
w4w - Woman looking for another woman
m4w - Man looking for a woman
m4m - Man looking for another man
mw4mw - Man and woman looking for another man and woman
mw4m - Man and woman looking for another man (also advisable to include the word(s); bull, stud, cuckold)
mw4w - Man and woman looking for another woman (also advisable to include the word unicorn)
w4mw - Woman looking for a man and woman (also advisable to include the word unicorn)
m4mw - Man looking for a man and woman (also advisable to include the word(s); bull, stud, or cuckold)
w4mm - Woman looking for two men
w4ww - Woman looking for two other women
m4mm - Man looking for two other men
m4ww - Man looking for two women
mm4m - Two men looking for another man
mm4w - Two men looking for a woman
mm4mw - Two men looking for a couple (man and woman)
ww4m - Two women looking for a man
ww4w - Two women looking for another woman
ww4mw - Two women looking for a couple (man and woman)
Example Listing Keywords:
Unicorn - A single woman looking for a group encounter (typically a MW couple)
MFM - A non bi-sexual threesome with two women and a man
FMF - A non bi-sexual threesome with a man and two women
MFF - A bi-sexual threesome with a man and two women
MMF - A bi-sexual threesome with two men and a woman
MFMF - A non bi-sexual foursome with two men and two women (typically two couples)
MMFF - A bi-sexual foursome with two men and two women (typically bi-sexual couples)
MFFM - A bi-sexual foursome where the women are bi-sexual and the men are not
FMMF - A bi-sexual foursome where the men are bi-sexual and the women are not
Soft Swap - Typically two couples in a foursome where the interaction between couples stops short of full intercourse
Full Swap - Typically two couples where full intercourse between the couples is an option
Hotwife - Typically a woman in a relationship where both parties enjoy her playing outside of the relationship
- Post a way for potential matches to get in contact with you. (Without doing this, they can't)
kik: Kik is a mobile app that is popular mainly due to it's easy chat/group chat and "in-app" pictures used for verification (more on that below)
Snapchat: Another great way to do verification photos
Email: Don't post your real email, or one that can be used to identify you. Try googling the email address you use before putting it in your listing..
Link to online profiles: Have an account at another website you would like to direct them to? Drop a link in your listing. (Don't attempt to drop spam links, or anything that's not to a profile on another site, we'll deny the listing)
Phone Number: Don't do it. We won't approve your listing. We can't/don't confirm the phone number belongs to you.
- Include physical stats, information about what you're into/looking for and other information that the people who would be responding to your listing might ask in the first few messages. The more you cut down on the back and forth and the effort it takes for someone to determine compatibility the better your chances of getting somewhere.
- Verify before you meet - It's highly recommended that you verify that the people on the other side are who they say they are. Whether that's their sex, appearance, location, sexual health status or whatever else is important to you. kik and snapchat are great ways to get a 'live pic' from someone and know that it was taken by that app at that time. (Look into the in-app picture indication in kik designated by the 'camera' text under a photo message)