Married Man Looking For An Ongoing, Discreet Affair (m4w) - Aurora, CO

I am a married white male, 50 yo, tall and in good shape (but always working on it). I am educated, intelligent, open-minded and adventurous. I am well-traveled, well-read, out going and fun.
I live in the far west burbs of Chicago and work in the Loop. I am looking for a woman with whom I can connect both mentally and physically for an ongoing and discreet friendship with benefits. I am looking for that elusive connection that results in some pretty fun and intense chemistry in the bedroom. I am in a sexless marriage and it's time to be a little selfish and do something for me. Ideally, you are married/attached and in a similar situation. I am not looking to change either of our situations and neither should you. I am open to someone single but you need to know how to be discreet and understand the nature of this type of relationship.
I am open on age and race. If you are in the city (Loop area is ideal) or work in the city, I am open to that as well. Daytime availability is ideal.
If I've piqued your interest and you think we might be a good fit and are looking for the same thing, then please send me a note.

If interested send me an email at 

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