European visitor looking for a discreet casual date (m4w) - Arlington, MA

Hello, I'm visiting the DC area for work in a couple of weeks time and I'd love to find a casual date. I'm 38 yo, tall and handsome, educated and well-traveled. Of course I understand the need for discretion and anonymity, and I'm not looking for anything other than a passionate night (or two)! If you do too then I'd love to hear from you, either via email (jshharwood at or Kik (Jharwood2015). I can host in Crystal City (next to DCA airport) or travel to you. Finally, whilst I'm open-minded about who I meet up with, I have zero interest in men, so please don't waste your time or mine.
Josh xx

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  • SwingLifestyle - Probably the largest/most widely populated and active swinger community.
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  • SDC - Most popular swinger community outside the United States

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